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The Process of Letting Go
Some pain is so great that it's necessary to hold onto it to give it the significance it deserves. Anything short of that trivializes it.
Thea Iberall
May 3, 20215 min read


To Let Go is Not to Deny, but to Accept
Yesterday, I surrendered. I cried. It was a windy day. I sat outside in the sunshine, I closed my eyes and saw sands blowing in the wind.

Shirley Riga
May 2, 20219 min read


I Want to Be All of Me
Another evening of terror dreams from the pot I stirred leaving me tired but determined to conquer my fears.

Shirley Riga
May 1, 20215 min read


Hello Core Belief!
A concept is an idea or notion conceived in the mind. I developed a belief I was unsafe if I was misunderstood. How to release it?

Shirley Riga
Apr 30, 20218 min read


Death is Humanity’s Word for Transition
I believe in the dimension of our true reality, a reality that is beyond the physical world on this earth. The veil is thinning.

Shirley Riga
Apr 29, 20219 min read


The Stages of Learning
In psychology, there is a model called the four stages of competence. Can I apply this model to the new tools I learn in our incubator?
Thea Iberall
Apr 28, 20215 min read


The Observer Within
I have built defensive walls around the innocence of my inner child because of my early experiences. Can a bird's-eye view help?

Shirley Riga
Apr 27, 20215 min read


Radical Self Care
I was raised understanding my job was to be nice above all else. That translated into forgetting about me. And to fibromyalgia.

Shirley Riga
Apr 26, 20216 min read


Circular Patterns
I have been managing my anxiety for years now and sometimes I still lose control.

Shirley Riga
Apr 25, 20215 min read


My Manifesto of Affirmations
I replenish myself by making time for spiritual connection. I integrate my inner life and my outer life. I am peaceful and at ease.
Nancy Bragg
Apr 24, 20216 min read


Grateful
I am the sum of all my experiences. Life would be grand on all scales if humanity held curiosity and innocence along with adult wisdom

Shirley Riga
Apr 23, 20215 min read


Ten to One
I used to beat myself up. If I messed up, I'd call myself names. I'd have deep regrets for things I didn't do. That changed with a question.
Thea Iberall
Apr 22, 20216 min read


Redefining My Core Belief
My reparenting began as I was welcomed into this world. No matter what truths were happening as a child, I redefined a core belief.

Shirley Riga
Apr 21, 20214 min read


Alignment
I reparent myself by choosing gentleness no matter the consequence at hand. It’s not easy because my brain's trained to judge, blame, punish

Shirley Riga
Apr 20, 20217 min read


Life’s A-Mazes
And so we go on, deeper into the maze and edging our feet into the water, and we and it – maze or water – are not the same as we were before
Ancelin Wolfe
Apr 19, 20215 min read


Presence
To live in truth is grounded in the present. My lifelong anxiety is based on traumatic memories and future worries. My breath is an anchor.

Shirley Riga
Apr 18, 20217 min read


Steadfast or change
Screenwriters learn that there are 2 types of characters: steadfast and change. Story happens when they meet and bump up against each other.
Thea Iberall
Apr 17, 20215 min read


Life is Transition
Life is full of opposites. The only consistent non-changing aspect is my inner light, my inner spark, my inner fire.

Shirley Riga
Apr 14, 20216 min read


Lean in to Support
I can’t make sense of the struggles that befall people. My life changed because I found lessons in everything I experienced.

Shirley Riga
Apr 12, 20219 min read


Journey To Me
I’ve learned how important it is to honor my needs, not deny them. Now I bow to the wisdom of my vessel and honor the inner alarms.

Shirley Riga
Feb 3, 20216 min read
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