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A "Yes And" Day: Reflections on the First Four Valleys
Sometimes I say something that others don’t like. And they respond in negative ways. In the past, I would get defensive, call them names.
Thea Iberall
Jan 9, 20217 min read


What If I Am Enough?
What if there’s a greater purpose to suffering? Understanding this can offer acceptance at a deeper level and offer some comfort.

Shirley Riga
Jan 2, 20217 min read


Finding the Gems
My goal is to breathe through the hiccups; stay steady through the roadblocks; remain centered through the perceived disasters.

Shirley Riga
Dec 25, 20207 min read


Resistance Leads to Persistence
As soon as I stopped fighting with her disease, as soon as I stopped resisting, something drastically changed.

Shirley Riga
Dec 22, 20206 min read


Even the Dalai Lama
I want my mind to stop for a while and take a rest. Some days I can ignore and other days I am front row center listening to every thought.

Shirley Riga
Dec 11, 20205 min read


You Matter
I was more of a black and white thinker years ago maneuvering through the world judging good/bad, safe/unsafe, fun/not fun. I see hues now.

Shirley Riga
Dec 5, 20206 min read


The Valley of the Quest
The first valley is about casting aside dogma and belief. What beliefs must I cast aside? Attar says, “Bread is always a need of the hungry"
Thea Iberall
Dec 1, 20205 min read


Rolling Rocks
I used to be a grudge holder. If someone hurt me, I would forever remember who they were and what they did. Then I learned something.

Shirley Riga
Nov 21, 20207 min read


Namaste
As I practice living every day, I surrender my pessimism and remember there's a learning in every experience no matter how difficult or good

Shirley Riga
Nov 15, 20205 min read


Learning is an omni-directional gift
No thought police will come to arrest me for believing what I want to believe. No one has a right to tell me what I know in my heart is true

Shirley Riga
Nov 10, 20206 min read


Commitment to Serenity
what does it take to stay in an open and loving heart no matter what is happening around me?
Anonymous
Nov 4, 20206 min read


The Dissidence of My Inside Voice versus My Outside Voice
I have been cultivating my true self for decades, peeling away the pain and confusion, the layers of thick crusty protection that helped me.

Shirley Riga
Oct 31, 20205 min read


Standing on the Ground
I know what sand feels like when I’m standing on the beach. I want to live in the beach scene. I don’t want to live in the circus.

Shirley Riga
Oct 28, 20208 min read


Being in the Now
I want to be in the Now. But I don’t want to again be in that “mush” state like when I was on anti-depressants. That is not the Now I want.
Thea Iberall
Oct 25, 20207 min read


Belonging
Food is a buffer and gives me perceived peace and conformity. I belong when I eat what others eat. I’m part of the web of life.

Shirley Riga
Oct 20, 20204 min read


An Act of Service
I’ve heard that there is nothing more important than being good. Even if I am an imperfect human being,
Thea Iberall
Oct 19, 20205 min read


Like the Roots of a Grand Oak
I trust authentic people, authentic circumstances. I feel safe when I witness humanness, not an air-brushed version.

Shirley Riga
Oct 16, 20204 min read


Thank You For My Losses
I stand before my inner fire and bow my head in gratitude for the losses in my life.

Shirley Riga
Oct 13, 20204 min read


Chapters in my life are like puddles I must wade through
A puddle is one experience and a sinkhole is another. As I age, I recognize the difference. No matter whether it’s a puddle or a sinkhole...

Shirley Riga
Oct 1, 20205 min read
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